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A Brief Note On Marriage
By Fred Moulton

The issue of same sex marriage has been a topic of increasing focus during the past few years. Numerous court rulings, legislative initiatives and ballot initiatives have been put forward. What I want to focus on is not the particulars of any proposed law or ballot proposition but rather some general points concerning the discussion of marriage.

Historically humans have formed different marriage arrangements. If for a moment we consider just heterosexual marriages we find many arrangements including some that are not common such as:

  • Polyandry consists of one woman and more than one man
  • Polygyny consists of one man and more than one woman
  • Group marriage consists of more than one man and more than woman
  • Line marriage is a term often used to refer to a group marriage designed to continue by adding new members over time
Anthropologists have studied and detailed the variety of marriage traditions in many cultures. The details on any specific marriage tradition are beyond our scope here but what is important is to remember that when someone refers to "traditional marriage" that does not really denote a specific form. This term is often used by persons in political discourse to make a false implication that monogamy is "the only" marriage tradition. Same sex marriage is another area which has become the focus for increasing historical study. As this is studied we should expect an even broader and richer documentation of marriage traditions.

Different marriage traditions become common in various areas or amongst groups for a variety of reasons. For example a couple of the reasons given for the prevalence of polyandry in certain areas of the Himalaya mountains is due to the limited amount of fertile agricultural areas and also as a way to limit population. Having fewer offspring tends to keep family agriculture holdings unified. However the institutions which might have developed historically in a pre-historical society may or may not be relevant to the needs of individuals in a modern mobile society.

Some of the changes seen is modern societies are in part leading to a reconsideration of marriage options. Both men and women are moving into roles which they had not held historically and which may lead to new situations. Some of the issues include:

  • The decision of couples to remain childless. For couples such as these arguments based on the "what is best for the children" are not relevant.
  • The definition of and relationships between work and non-work time and place are changing. Long term travel or extended onsite work shifts or different residences are factors which can lead to a desire for considering various marriage options.
  • The desire of couples for relationships which are for some time frame other than live long or which might involve some arrangement other than just two adults in the relationship.
  • The legal and social restrictions on the LGBT community are begining to be eliminated. This is a long overdue and still incomplete process however we are hopeful for the future.
  • Both historically and currently religious institutions have been involved with marriage and often this religious involvement has been done with government sanction. The ability of religious institutions to co-opt the coercive power of the government gives them the ability to maintain a role in the social fabric and to force their world view. Thus we should not be surprised that some (but not all) religions are in the forefront of the efforts to put restricts on marriage and sexual expression.

    From a libertarian feminist perspective the role of government is ideally one of getting out of the way. The is no rational reason for government to be deciding for adults which people they can marry based on the number of participants or their gender. As long as it is adults freely agreeing then there is no legitimate government role. At best government involvement will be a needless distraction and at worst an impediment to both happiness of the individuals involved and the general evolution of social instiutuions.