A Brief Note On Marriage
By Fred Moulton
The issue of same sex marriage has been a topic of increasing focus
during the past few years. Numerous court rulings, legislative
initiatives and ballot initiatives have been put forward. What I
want to focus on is not the particulars of any proposed law or
ballot proposition but rather some general points concerning the
discussion of marriage.
Historically humans have formed different marriage arrangements. If
for a moment we consider just heterosexual marriages we find many
arrangements including some that are not common such as:
- Polyandry consists of one woman and more than one man
- Polygyny consists of one man and more than one woman
- Group marriage consists of more than one man and more than woman
- Line marriage is a term often used to refer to a group marriage
designed to continue by adding new members over time
Anthropologists have studied and detailed the variety of marriage traditions
in many cultures. The details on any specific marriage tradition are beyond
our scope here but what is important is to remember that when someone
refers to "traditional marriage" that does not really denote a specific form.
This term is often used by persons in political discourse to make a false
implication that monogamy is "the only" marriage tradition. Same sex
marriage is another area which has become the focus for increasing
historical study. As this is studied we should expect an even broader and
richer documentation of marriage traditions.
Different marriage traditions become common in various areas or amongst
groups for a variety of reasons. For example a couple of the reasons given
for the prevalence of polyandry in certain areas of the Himalaya mountains
is due to the limited amount of fertile agricultural areas and also as
a way to limit population. Having fewer offspring tends to keep family
agriculture holdings unified. However the institutions which might have
developed historically in a pre-historical society may or may not
be relevant to the needs of individuals in a modern mobile society.
Some of the changes seen is modern societies are in part leading to
a reconsideration of marriage options. Both men and women are moving
into roles which they had not held historically and which may lead to
new situations. Some of the issues include:
The decision of couples to remain childless. For couples such
as these arguments based on the "what is best for the children" are
not relevant.
The definition of and relationships between work and non-work
time and place are changing. Long term travel or extended onsite work
shifts or different residences are factors which can lead to a desire
for considering various marriage options.
The desire of couples for relationships which are for some time
frame other than live long or which might involve some arrangement
other than just two adults in the relationship.
The legal and social restrictions on the LGBT community are
begining to be eliminated. This is a long overdue and still incomplete
process however we are hopeful for the future.
Both historically and currently religious institutions have been
involved with marriage and often this religious involvement has been
done with government sanction. The ability of religious institutions to
co-opt the coercive power of the government gives them the ability to
maintain a role in the social fabric and to force their world view.
Thus we should not be surprised that some (but not all) religions are
in the forefront of the efforts to put restricts on marriage and sexual
expression.
From a libertarian feminist perspective the role of government is
ideally one of getting out of the way. The is no rational reason
for government to be deciding for adults which people they can marry based
on the number of participants or their gender. As long as it is adults
freely agreeing then there is no legitimate government role. At best
government involvement will be a needless distraction and at worst
an impediment to both happiness of the individuals involved and the
general evolution of social instiutuions.
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